Finding the right photo for your online dating profile

Finding the right photo for your online dating profile

In the real world, first impressions count. And in the cyberworld of online dating, it’s your online profile that will make that vital first impression.

A picture speaks a thousand words, so your photo is of utmost importance. In a bid to stay anonymous, some singles don’t post their real photos. Others are shy or feel they’re not photogenic. But not revealing how you look sends out a subliminal message to other singles – it may suggest that you have something to hide or have a lack of confidence.

Profiles with photos on dating websites do better than those without – it’s a scientific fact. You don’t want a glamour photo – you want one where you look as natural as possible. So look your best without going overboard in the glamour strakes, and avoid pictures where it looks like an obvious pose.

A trustworthy friend can help you choose the right picture if you’re unsure. And don’t be afraid to put several photos of yourself online if you can. Research by Yahoo! has revealed that dating profiles with photos get fives times more replies than ones without, and those with more than one photo can get up to seven times as many responses. And what’s more, five photos increase the response rate by a whopping nine times! The research also showed that women are especially responsive to profiles with photos.

Research at match.com is even more exciting, although it differs somewhat from Yahoo!’s conclusions. Match.com says that “men are 14 times more likely to look at a female profile with a photo, and women are 8.5 times more likely.”

Whatever the case, there no understating the value of a photo in your profile. For singles with kids and pets, putting the child or fur-kid in the picture speaks volumes of who you are and what’s important to you. If you’re the outdoors type, a photo showing you in the wilderness will help attract people who are like-minded.

Close-ups work best in your post for online dating sites – and please, resist the temptation to put it through Photoshop…or to use a photo of yourself than more than, say, 12 months old.

Prospective dates will be responding to what he or she sees in the profile, so it makes sense on every level to present yourself as you are today. If you’re a bald man, don’t wear a hat in your photo. Show yourself in all your bald glory – women appreciate honesty above all else, and most women won’t care if your bald (and if they do, they’re too superficial for you anyway).

Choose a photo or photos of yourself smiling – it will create a better impression and chances are we’ll be less “posed” and natural when were smiling. Choosing a photo can be a headache for a lot of online singles when first venturing into the world of internet dating . Take your time with it and, most of all, feel confident about your choice. Use your gut instinct.

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Comments (18)

PokeMann61December 15th, 2009 at 9:55 pm

dude, you own! this looks identical to a photograph

ManiekWilqDecember 15th, 2009 at 10:53 pm

it’s almost like a photo :) great painting :)

Enlightenme!December 15th, 2009 at 9:46 pm

In my time, I've met plenty of girls online but it never seem like dating. It seemed like a hook-up for sex only. However, doing more online dating than meeting a nice woman the normal way, such as in the mall or at a cafe, will make you lose your style with approaching women. Lower your percentage of online dating and increase your confidence in approaching women.

libraDecember 15th, 2009 at 10:59 pm

=it doesn't appear he is on an emotional roller coaster. I am not as concerned about him getting divorced for the second time as I am about all of the broken promises which destroys trust. Chances are he is the type of person who could never open up and trust. Remember a zebra never loses his stripes. Take care of yourself and move on to someone who deserves your love and you don't have to work so hard. Best wishes.

gatitahimekoDecember 16th, 2009 at 8:26 am

A-W-E-S-O-M-E your works is very awesome! cool!!!! very good

JanetDecember 16th, 2009 at 2:17 pm

People only reveal the best sides of themselves online and thus creates a false image of their true personality.

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MrWillewaloDecember 17th, 2009 at 2:10 pm

wich program he is for doing this ? beside a tablet ofc

SoreanolDecember 17th, 2009 at 3:55 pm

HOLY CRAP! Comparing this to the original picture, they’re identical!

WilliamsShamirDecember 18th, 2009 at 1:38 am

i use photoshop

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i like http://best-free-dating-site-usa.blogspot.com/ . A lot of dating sites will allow you to create a profile without signing up for service. So create a profile and put up a completely random picture for your profile image and people will flock to your page and give you their email and yahoo addresses. Then just add them to your yahoo chat and talk to them. That's what I did.

11AlytDecember 18th, 2009 at 2:13 pm

awesome stuff man,….ama practice hard to get to yo level!

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Even though your asking this in the wrong category. You can try myspace or singlesnet.

katrinaburgoyneDecember 18th, 2009 at 5:54 pm

Awesome work Williamsshamir
Great video. :)
Much love Kat

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